First let me say I ADORE your blog. My question is what is your advice for us military wives? My husband is often gone and it is very hard on the relationship. Even when he comes home it takes a lot of time to slowly get back into the swing of things and get used to eachother again. Any ideas or tips on keeping the romance going for us gals' who's hubby is gone often?
-A Military Wife
First of all, thank you so much for your kind words. And more importantly, thank you for your family's sacrifice. Military families are my heroes.
I'm not sure what protocol is for the military communication, but here is one solution I thought of for you. I assume you are able to send letters to one another.
Try writing an erotic letter to your husband. Don't hold back. Tell him what turns you on and describe your fantasies in detail. It doesn't have to be wild or crazy, but it certainly can if you'd like. The letter can be as simple as describing a past sexual encounter with him. Encourage him to have an orgasm. Though you are miles or seas apart, you will be connected. Tell him to write you back quickly because you are anxious to enjoy the same experience.
Your focus will remain on each other and you will feel as though you still know each other sexually.
Let me know if you try this, how it works out for you. Was his response positive?